Dating an older recently divorced man
So, they pick up a trick or two in their failed marriage and they use this to their advantage.Regardless of whether they or the spouse did the cheating, if infidelity was one of the reasons their marriage ended, then they will step up the game and make sure it doesn’t happen again even if it means sticking to you like glue and watching you like a hawk. Some even go to the extent of hiring a private detective just to satisfy their paranoia.The Kids – I saved this one for last as kids are the deciding factor for anyone who attempts to date a divorcee with kids.Unlike a divorced man with kids, for a divorced woman with kids, the story is slightly different.So that in mind I decided to investigate the other side of the coin, seeing I received a lot of requests to write a rebuttal on this subject.
Since their marriage failed, they don’t want a repeat performance, so they tend to assume the dominant role.
You are a Pawn - No divorced woman wants to live in defeat and so in order for her to move on and try to “handle” her failure, she needs you to achieve her success plan.
Remember, she is hurting from the loss of a marriage and since she can’t just “revenge” without consequences, she needs to boost her ego and this is where you come in.
If she is at a certain age (especially over 40) most people will associate her as either a lesbian, or a manipulative wicked witch with a “B”, or a selfish pratt or a woman who can’t keep a guy and all sorts of assumptions.
Though this may not always be true, most divorcees can’t handle the assumptions whether they are true or not.At this point, she commences war with the ex (whether good or bad) and she will always want to show him that she is doing much better than him and sadly you are just a pawn in her deadly game. Unlike a divorced man who shuns the idea of marriage again, for a divorced woman it’s the opposite.She doesn’t want that divorced title for the rest of her life.You are the tool that shows she’s moved on and she doesn’t just take you as you are.