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I met a drunk girl on the streets of my hometown one day while out with a friend. She said, "I've had sex with a lot of people - but I've never made love with anyone." She had decided... There is no such thing as "friends with benefits."The thing is... You'd never compare it to someone who broke their arm once. People who are raped or molested experience physical pain, psychological pain, emotional pain, and spiritual pain. One of my youth told me a story about a girl who (Before I came to this church) asked, "Where in the Bible does it say that people can't have sex until marriage?
and culture had taught her that sex can be purely physical. our culture agrees with this (unless it's inconvenient for them). " And apparently (so the story goes) no one could answer her.
We're not here to talk about STDs and teen pregnancy. because we know that something more than the physical has taken place.
We're here to talk about how great, meaningful, loving, and godly sex can be - when done under the right conditions. When someone is raped they don't just experience physical pain. I asked one of my Juniors when they were planning on having sex and they said, "I'm not sure... probably when I'm 22." We got to have an awesome dialogue about God's expectations for his sex life.
When Paul says that believers need to be equally yoked with others - he isn't talking exclusively about marriage. God bestows on you awesome mysterious power to become one with someone else. You're telling your Christian girls not to be unequally yoked but also telling them to hope for their future spouse but you know that there's not enough christian men for every christian woman in the church.
He's just talking about our close partnerships with anyone in our lives. You don't have to travel the world or pray really hard or scour the internet to find "the one" for you. So why aren't we talking more about celibacy and singleness? Christianity can be summed up in a continual, daily, surrendering to God.
Regardless of when you say it - you still need to love them.
I heard the other day that Christians are the best planners.
Online dating sites provide you with this exceptional opportunity to meet the person of your dreams.You want to lay this on thick and protect them from feeling condemnation.We're not here to talk about why people shouldn't have sex." Chances are - the person your dating is someone else's future spouse.