How to end a casual dating relationship
You can flirt with him, ask for his number, and even plan and pay for the date. Essentially, you can do what you feel will make you feel good. When you meet a guy that you think is great and you want to be in a serious relationship with him, but he’s dropping the ball it’s not your job to take the reigns.
When you meet a guy that you like but he’s not moving the relationship forward by calling, texting, or planning future dates, it’s natural to wonder, “What should I do?
When you think about letting a man pursue you, consider letting him take the lead when it makes sense for him to do so.
Don’t try to fill in the gaps for where he should be showing interest and isn’t.
With a little patience, and a lot of trust, you can easily find yourself in a healthy relationship.
But fueled by insecurity, and the belief that it won’t happen unless you make it happen, can lead to a really unhappy experience.
Chill with the idea that dating is complicated, and scary that we need to make it easy on men. The idea of letting a man pursue you might sound old-fashioned but consider this: if you’re taking the reigns from the man then you’re missing out on a key part of his personality. The way he communicates with you, and romances you, and tries to impress you.
Putting trust into the guy that you want to be exclusive with shouldn’t sound like a crazy concept.
To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.
It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re committing to.
If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.
You’re also telling him that you don’t trust he can, or will pursue you of his own accord. It takes patience to let a man to date you the way feels comfortable with, and some women just don’t have the patience to do it.I know it’s exciting to like someone but you have to be patient in the process, and don’t feel like you have to make it happen. Don’t be so quick to assume that if this guy really liked you he would lock it down.If you’re dating a man who isn’t calling you, or texting you, or trying to advance the relationship then you’re not dating the right guy.If you’re dating someone who isn’t moving as fast as you would like, just wait. The emphasis on patience is this: don’t take action because you’re afraid that the guy won’t.